If you truely want to have the lifestyle & money of your dreams, you really do have to look & think outside of the conventional thinking. From my experience of feeling totally stuck with no way out, the easiest way to stay stuck is to stay in the same mindset that I was taught as a child & young adult.
If you want to be financially free, your task is to become educated & skilled in the way of thinking that people who have achieved the results that you want think.
This requires work on your part and there are no short cuts. We as a society have become used to the quick fix, and resist the time that it really takes to learn any real skill.
Becoming wealthy has everything to do with your mindset & very little to do with your current circumstances. Ask yourself have I really & truly decided to change my circumstance & what is the 1 step that I need to take towards this.